“Re-engineer yourself” to Lead your Relationship

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“Re-engineer yourself” to Lead your Relationship. Its 25th April 2008, I got promoted from a bachelor to a married man, within six months, I realized that once known as an intelligent person, now struggling hard to keep himself cool. I had fallen hard. I was overwhelmed, fearful, and not respected by my in-laws in particular. Why? Just because I was more than 25yrs of age, which is considered to be the age of getting married. I was married, expected to learn the skills to make my married life successful, all by myself. As the way, some top technical performer promoted into management and expected to learn management by osmosis. But I had not envisioned the real challenge of married life. For example, after getting married, the dynamics of all the…
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Performance Dil Se

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I got married in 2008 and began our life with the good intention of living a happy and fulfilling life with a synergistic relationship. When I say synergistic relationship, I mean, creating something which alone can't be created. However, by observing her for a few days ( not months), I started viewing her as incapable of doing anything well, not good enough to rise in her career, despite the fact that she is, MBA and worked for five years before our marriage, because of some mistakes she might have committed of, or perhaps she couldn't make in the first two jobs interviews. And I started micro-managing her. Sensing my reduced confidence, she began doubting herself. She stopped giving her best, responded mechanically to my controls, and avoided decisions to do…
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